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Vincent Van Gogh - Old Man


Warning
When I am an old woman I shall wear purple
With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we've no money for butter.
I shall sit down on the pavement when I'm tired
And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells
And run my stick along the public railings
And make up for the sobriety of my youth.
I shall go out in my slippers in the rain
And pick the flowers in other people's gardens
And learn to spit.

You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat
And eat three pounds of sausages at a go
Or only bread and pickle for a week
And hoard pens and pencils and beermats and things in boxes.

But now we must have clothes that keep us dry
And pay our rent and not swear in the street
And set a good example for the children.
We must have friends to dinner and read the papers.

But maybe I ought to practise a little now?
So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised
When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple.

....by Jenny Joseph




Age is opportunity no less
Than youth itself, though in another dress,
And as the evening twilight fades away
The sky is filled with stars invisible by day.

....by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow




Jitterbug Rap

[A steady beat on the coffee table or the arm
of your chair will help as you read this]
Come on you Grannies, get in the groove
This old folks' world is startin' to move
No more waitin' for the phone to ring
No more huntin' for blues to sing
You and I got plenty to do
Just playin' catch-up will take a few
Months of practice then we'll really swing
Just like Benny or some Dorsey Thing.
The more we sit, the more we grumble
You'll feel like your hind end's caught in the rumble
Seat of your boyfriend's old Model A
Back in the thirties--that'd be the day.
Forget about the old days? Not if you're smartest
You can make new days--you're a new-day artist
Take all the good stuff you know how to do
Match it up easy with somethin' brand new.
Surprise all the young bucks, enlighten your kids
Show you've learned more than preemptive bids.
Join a few classes, shake those tired limbs
Go for a workout in broken-down gyms
You'll fit right in there if you don't watch your step
"Fit" is the right word if you're gonna be hep.
Try a new hobby, tie a new fly
Climb a small mountain just fifty feet high
But get out and do it, don't sit there and rust
Read a new book, help the old lady dust
Walk at your leisure around the school track
Then wait a few days before you try to go back
Don't whine about Dentugrip, Maalox and Tums
Call up your old cronies--those lazy bums
Sprawled 'front of TV rotting away
While you're out there having a wonderful day.

....by Frances Weaver
        I'm Not As Old As I Used To Be



Daisies
If I had my life to live over, I'd dare to make more mistakes next time.
I'd relax, I would limber up. I would be sillier than I have been this trip.
I would take fewer things seriously. I would take more chances.
I would climb more mountains and swim more rivers.
I would eat more ice cream and less beans.
I would perhaps have more actual troubles,
but I'd have fewer imaginary ones.

You see, I'm one of those people who live sensibly and sanely, hour after hour,
day after day. Oh, I've had my moments, and if I had to do it over again,
I'd have more of them. In fact, I'd try to have nothing else.
Just moments, one after another, instead of living
so many years ahead of each day.

I've been one of those persons who never goes anywhere
without a thermometer, a hot water bottle,
a raincoat and a parachute.
If I had it to do again, I would
travel lighter than I have.

If I had my life to live over, I would start barefoot earlier
in the spring and stay that way later in the fall.
I would go to more dances.
I would ride more merry-go-rounds.
I would pick more daisies.

....by Nadine Stair, adapted from an essay by Don Herold

Sherrie Lovler has a beautiful calligraphy creation of portions of this prose poem.



Autumn
Now the great green earth has turned to gold;
and the fruit is gathered, and the grain is garnered.

So may we in the autumn of life, mellowed by experience,
grow rich in beauty and service,
as the green of the earth and the grain of the field

....by Max Ehrmann

        The Desiderata of Faith


Journey's End
Have we learned wisdom in the great book of life,
that we may have repose in age? Then let us not
fear, that we may sit without discontent in the
house of our narrow wanderings. Let us be patient
with youth remembering that its joys and follies
were ours also in cheerful yesterdays. When
weariness overtakes us, may courage and gentleness
forsake us not. When we despair in darkness, may
we see a light before our faltering footsteps.

Now are we thankful for our lives and for the
abundance of the earth, for the moon and the stars,
the sunshine and the rain, the fields and the woods.
Above all, we are thankful for love.

And at journey's end, the sun gone down, let us
walk with smiling faces like travelers homeward bound.

....by Max Ehrmann

        The Desiderata of Faith


Senility Prayer
God grant me the Senility
to forget the people
I never liked anyway,
the good fortune
to run into the ones I do,
and the eyesight
to tell the difference.

....Anonymous (?)




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